25 things I've learned by the age of 25

    1.   I’ve learned that after the age of 21 all of the years blend together, and life really does go as fast as your parents used to tell you it would

    2.       I’ve learned that no matter what age I am I think I will always be bad at approaching and talking to the person I find attractive

3.       That time and the value of relationships are worth so much more than money and possessions

   4.       Falling in love isn't as easy as you thought it would be, and being heartbroken can be one of the most painful experiences. But I’ve learned that because of knowing that pain, I’ve found breaking up with someone much harder than being broken up with. I'd rather not cause anyone that same pain.

   5.       Emotions aren't a bad thing, and as you get older I think there are two people..Those who choose to ignore their emotions and live a colorless life, and those who feel the world at a much deeper level 

   6.       At some point everyone needs to move out on an adventure of their own where they don’t have the comfort of home and loved ones, because that’s where you truly grow and find out who you are. You should always take opportunities that will take you out of your comfort zone

   7.      I’ve learned that once an introvert always an introvert, I’ve come a long ways and am now only an undercover introvert :P

   8.       I’ve learned that my view of love, marriage and relationships is totally different than a lot of others, but I’m so thankful for the mentors and parents I had who taught me what a genuine relationship and true love can really look like.

   9.       And I never expected to be single at 25 ..sometimes it sucks. I may cry and get lonely, but at the same time I’ve learned to love who I am and I have become so much more self-confident. I don’t regret any of the choices I’ve made to get me here and I know eventually it will all work out.

   10.   I learned that in life much of what you once thought to be black and white is really grey, and that you have to define what you believe those things to be on your own. For instance, success.  I’ve learned that many people have varying opinions of what they consider to be successful. I think the key difference of those opinions is whether your founding your definition on materialistic self-gain or not.

11. I've learned I wish I knew more about politics, cars, technology and that I could speak another language fluently

   12.   Worrying is a pointless waste of energy because it cannot change whatever it is you are worrying about.

   13.   You should never go a day without smiling and laughter, and more importantly you should never go a day without making someone else smile and laugh.

   14.   I’ve learned positive thinking really can change your outlook on life, but it takes conscious effort.

   15.   That religion is a weird thing with a lot of controversy, but that a relationship with God and my faith in Him is what I’ve learned to value. It has truly been the one thing of my foundation that has always been consistent and reliable in every aspect.

   16.   Enjoy life. You cannot take it too seriously, and as adults there is something to be learned from how children live. Which is why one of my mottos is, lose the ignorance not innocence of life.

   17.    You realize the things you took advantage of when you were younger and try not to take for granted now. Simple things like sleep, hot showers, quality time and not having to be constrained by time and money. 

   18.   We forget about the small things and are constantly looking at the big picture, but the small things are what make the big picture and each day worth it.

   19.   I’ve learned, and am still working on, technology vs. quality time with people and being present in the moment.

   20.   That hugs are a necessity

   21.   There is something sooo refreshing, and cleansing about working out, not just for your body but for you mind .. and that music is life’s pulse.

   22.   Food is awesome, and that’s all that needs to be said about that

   23.   Although I love my immediate family to death, I have learned that family doesn’t always mean by blood, and that is the beauty of it. So always say I love you to those you do, and let the people you care about know that you care.. But don’t say I love you in a romantic relationship if you don’t.

   24.   I’ve learned that one of the worst things in humanity is the instinct people have to judge, compare and misunderstand. But I’ve also learned that we also have a conscious to overcome that.  

   25.   I’ve learned that I always see people as more good than bad, and have always lived a life full of hope. With that has come a lot of disappointment and conflict, but I don’t think I would change how I view life because with it has also come an incomparable amount of joy.

I could probably write a novel of the things I’ve learned, but I don’t want to write a novel haha And turning 25 might feel like a quarter life crisis :p  Just like everyone I have moments I'm not proud of , but it's been a good journey so far. I can honestly say I never would have thought this life could be so full, and I’m proud to look back at all of the people I have met, adventures I’ve taken, and lessons I’ve learned.
I'll leave you with these last thoughts..
- K.I.S.S (keep it simple stupid)
- Always remember to turn the oven off
-Sometimes all you need is a glass of milk and spoon full of peanut butter
- Genuinely listen to people & look people in the eyes
- Tequila is never a good idea
- The scars you get on your journey are a part of your life's scrapbook
- Dance.. just dance haha
- If you lock your keys in the car there's always a way
- And finally be adventurous.. the only limits you have are the one's you place on yourself